Normal? That's a loaded question here.
If men had their way anal sex would be fairly common. But since women are partners in this it seems that well under 1/3 of couples engage in anal on any sort of regular basis. (I could look this up and find a source but I'm going with what I remember.)
The rectum is designed to expel things - not to take things in. That's not to say you can't enjoy anal sex, though. I have my doubts about an "anal orgasm" but if you can achieve that more power to you. My guess is that you tolerate his desire but it really isn't anything you look forward to. Plus it isn't face-to-face (usually) and you might miss that aspect.
But, hey, what's wrong with intercourse? That's the question I think you pose. Why doesn't he want to have "regular" sex? Have you asked him this specifically?
It could be that some counseling is needed. There must be some issue here that isn't clear to you. The question here seem to me to be how to have a mutually satisfying sex life - not how to become an anal sex "addict." Most of us need variety and 100% of any act or position becomes boring after a while. Some people can't even handle 100% with the same person.
That said, I wouldn't take his behavior/desire to suggest that he harbors homosexual tendencies.
I hope you and he can have some clear communication and a mutual expression of desires and interests. Please let us know what comes of this!
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