[Dave from Holland]

Hello Readers,
First of all, I am a gay male and am 22 years old, and I have a boyfriend for over 3 years now, and we have decided it was time for our first Handfasting (sort of a Pagan wedding)
We wanted to invite both of our parents, but we realized, we still had not met eachothers parents, merely to avoid 1 big question we don't want to give answer to:
"Where did you two meet?"
We met at a BDSM party, and fell in love immediately, but his parents don't know he is gay, my parents are Christians, and don't know I am Pagan, and both our parents don't know we are into BDSM.
So it's allot of factors we had to hide for over 3 years now, and the burden is harder to bare, lying to our parents.
And it's not exactly a subject to put on the table, between dinner and dessert.
"Hi mom, hi dad, we are gay, engaged in a Pagan wedding oh and hey, we met at a BDSM party" doesn't quite do the trick.
Please dear Dan and Jennifer help me,
I am desperate, and I don't know how much longer I can keep lying.
Sincerely yours, Dave