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Hi Redrains,

As I was reading through, I can't help but feel terrible for you and get mad at your wife. I'm sorry to say this but she clearly has no respect for you and she's not worth fighting for. I know that you want to save your marriage and preserve your family ties but it would be utterly agonizing to go on with what she puts you through. In all honesty, let her go, give yourself a break and move on. You deserve to emancipate yourself from the affliction that she's putting you through and pursue your own happiness.