I have been separated from my husband for three years and have been going through the divorce process for one year. I am a 43 year old stay at home mom and wanted to start dating to get some adult time. I chose to seek out the on-line dating process. I started dating one man and we went to lunch and at the end hugged and gave each other a peck. Our next date was to lunch and a movie and again it ended with a hug and a peck. We only see each other every two weeks and he calls every 2 or 3 days except when he has his kids. In the meantime I started chatting and decided to go one a date with another man. We were first going to just meet for coffee and we ended up going to dinner and then the movies. We both didn't want the date to end but we both had sitters with our kids and had to say our goodbyes. At the end we hugged each other alot and kissed (pecked) several times. During the movie we cuddled the whole time. I like the second man and am more attracted to the second man and we are planning a second date. I thought this wouldn't be a problem since I am not in a committed relationship and not sleeping with anyone. The second man knows about the first man but the first man doesn't know about the second man. I figured how was I going to know what type of man I liked unless I dated a few men first. I don't what to hurt anyone. It has only been a few dates so do I even need to talk to either one of them about the other man? If it got to the point where a commitment started or I started sleeping with one of them then of course I would tell the other one but at this stage do I need to say anything? HELP, I AM FEELING GUILITY!!!!
