[MeMe in the south]

He can't tell the truth to save his life. He tells me one thing, then does another. Today has been 2 weeks since the affair came to light. He said he has tried to make amends to me but he has taken no action what so ever. I told him to leave me alone. That I wanted more and deserved better from him or any man. I am not willing to share nor do i think I can trust him again. This a pattern of behavior for me. He can't stay committed to any one woman. He has done this to every woman he has ever been in a relationship with, I am just the first one to actually catch him at it. He said that he felt sorry for her!!! What a crock. He admitted that he could not be alone. That he was afraid if he let her go, then I still wouldn't come back. I told him that was a huge possiblity.

I think he has an addiction to affairs or to sex. He refuses to see someone for help. He said he didn't need any help. I however am going to see a therapist. I don't know what will become of him, but I really wish he would get his life straight. He has risked everything for this girl, including a 25 year long career that is now in jepoardy because of his relationship with her.

I don't understand but I do realize that the problems do not lie with me. Although I made mistakes in our relationship, he chose to have an affair for his own selfish reasons.

Thanks for the feed back. It is greatly appreciated.