SamIAm: About 30% of women don't have climaxes. I suspect the two of you have tried most of the standard sexual techniques to help you achieve orgasm.
The first thing I notice is that you're not just unable to have an orgasm, but you become desperate to end the sexual contact. To me, that suggests an emotional connection. Instead of just suggesting techniques, I'm going to recommend that you see a sexual therapist and try to get to the bottom of that.
One thing you didnt' say is whether you can stimulate yourself to orgasm. I suspect you can't. That reinforces the need for a professional sex therapist to uncover the underlying issues and see that they are properly addressed.
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