Beagle,
You know, you might be right...that's kind of true. And no, I haven't been able to get myself that far either. I haven't really tried very much...I still have some deep-rooted shyness about it all even by myself, because I just never went so far as to try to masturbate when I was younger...I thought it was evil.
And my boyfriend thought it was evil too, but he did it anyway. So besides being a little simpler, he also understands his body better.
Thank you for the suggestion! I'll definitely keep that in mind. Do you know how one would find a sexual therapist? Can you just ask your gynecologist or something?
Thank you SO much for all your help!!!