Yes. Your gynecologist would be an excellent starting point. Given your description, I'm almost certain this is something you're going to need help to resolve. the good news is that you will probably be successful if you're persistent. Your guy is lucky, because most women who have this, and it's more common than you might think, just stop having sex and never do anything about it. That's the number-one complaint men have about their marriages.
Please let us know what you find out. I'm reasonably certain that the solution will turn out to be emotional conflicts from your upbringing. However, since these responses were learned, you can learn new responses with time. Sexual therapy is generally very successful, so long as both partners want it to be successful.
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