[Dan And Jennifer]

I must admit that I cannot begin to relate to how you must be feeling.

However, the one common theme I read in your message is resistance to how things are now and a longing for them to be the way they were. In any situation, there are only two options - accept it or change it. In this situation, you may not be able to change it (other than medication to reduce your sex drive). That means that you need to accept your situation. by not accepting it, you are resisting it. Resistance is at the root of all misery. If you look back at you life an thing of every time you felt miserable, I'll be with a little focus, you'll be able to identify the the thing that you were resisting...

This may not be what you want to hear, but accepting life just as it is in this moment will help you more than any amount of counseling. It may be difficult at first, but if you look hard enough, you can find something to be grateful for each and every moment of every day.

The choice is yours and only yours. Choose to resist (misery) or choose to accept (happiness) each moment exactly as it is...