I appreciate your time, trying to not comfort me but tell me like it is. Yeah,you're right you can't relate. If you no longer could feel your genetial area,you can bet you'll
be thinking about how life used to be some also.
That doesn't ever go away. My nickname says it all.
I wasn't asking how i can live being a paraplegic. I have enough life experience on that.Thats not your expertise.I wish that on noone.
My question had to do with how can i receive sexual satisfaction through sex,despite not having any sensitive spots.
So your saying i have to have other things satisfy my physical urges.
We're sexual beings and never being able to have that feeling again would make most men feel disappointed.
I can't drink because of all my medications;it screws with your body anyway,or dance at clubs or go swimming because of incontinence issures or go on amusement rides. You get the picture.You can only be grateful so much for your g/f or you can move your arms or food or TV or the sun,etc,etc. My fun is limited greatly.
Every Spinal Cord Injury patient deals with depression in some form or another.I did write
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I am sexually frustrated to no end and
miss the outlet of releasing sexual tension.Its torture and so much
misery,especially comparing myself to able- bodied people,which happens,even though i try not to.
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Yeah,i'm using my inability to feel sex as an excuse. I will focus more on what you advised though. .
Thanks again.