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Old 03-31-2009, 10:18 AM
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Shadowsoul: First of all, welcome.

Words are very powerful things. Shakespeare once said "Many who wear rapiers fear those who use quills." The words we use to describe things affects our deepest thoughts about those things.

I don't know what a "sex freak" is, and neither does anyone else. I think participation in any sexual activity implies a "craving," which I would define as a deep desire. Having desires doesn't make anyone a "freak" and it doesn't make you one.

My attitude is "If it ain't a problem; then it ain't a diagnosis." If any behavior is unhealthy, or prevents you from accomplishing things that are important to you, or violates the rights of others, then it is a problem. Otherwise, how you express your sexuality is your business, and the business of who you choose to share it with. There's no such thing as a "sexual freak" as long as it respects the health and rights of everyone involved.
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