I have been with my fiance for almost 11 years. We are suppose to be getting married this September. The problem I have is he is not sure if he wants to get married. He says he loves me but marriage scares him. He doesn't like to talk or hear about the wedding plans. I am so confused. Is this normal for a guy to feel so scared or unsure about this or is he just unsure about me? Please help me understand because he's not doing a good job.