[She_Who_Loves]

Hi All! I am in need of some assistance/resources. I enjoy being tied up, spanked, dominated, hair pulled, rough sex etc and my boyfriend is learning to dominate me.
I'm trying to find ways to explain to him that we could take our scenes further, use more props (like my beloved fur lined ankle cuffs) and toys, without giving him the impression that our sex isn't a wonderful experience. He is amazing in bed (first man with whom I orgasmed). He just has never had a woman who wants to be dominated, and we're trying to find what works for us through experimentation. Right now it seems that when I suggest new ideas or scenes that it does he is disinterested/does not find it sexy or desirable. He expresses interest, has looked at porn/manga-porn/stories about domination, it just seems that he's trapped in the thought that it's all about telling me to shut up and cum, and not much more. We've used some of the resources on the site, like the bdsm quiz. Again, I filled it out, and he read my answers, made some comments but didn't fill it out or talk to me about what he wants. We come from different sexual backgrounds: I"m 25, high libido, bisexual and except for him usually more attracted women. He's 32, has a lower libido, has spent much time in the idea of "straight" sex, strip bars and mainstream/slightly kinky pornography but not bdsm ideas. It should be noted that I enjoy both dominating and being dominated and that he is only attracted to the idea of dominating, never dominated.

Any and all advice is greatly appreciated! Thank you in advance!