It sounds like the two of you are doing everything right. Taking it slow. Be sure and tell him what you told us, that he's the first man who ever gave you an orgasm. Then be sure to tell him that you want to enjoy him in every way possible.
People are much more receptive to ideas if they feel like it's their idea. Any suggestion he makes, act excited and turned on. Let him know he drives you crazy in bed. I'll bet he'll keep getting more adventurous.
His actions will depend on how you respond. When he does something you like, go crazy, tell him how great it is. bite him uncontrollably, etc. This will reward his behavior because guys love to know they're pleasing their lady. Then, I think nature will take it's course.
Have you considered going somewhere you could watch other people play with BDSM? Watching people is a great way to learn.
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