Hmmm... honesty is best, but not having the affair is better
For us, "honesty is the best policy"... but the only problem we had with the poll is that the underlying assumption is that you HAD an affair.
And of course there are other variables...
- you actually had an affair
- do you want to make up with your partner?
- is there a reason you're not with that person that you had the "affair" with - was it just a one-night-stand?
Lots of variables. IF you truly communicate and follow the honesty is best policy from the beginning I just don't think you'd get to the affair stage to begin with.
Dan
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