[Wolfhowl]

Now I might have a slightly unfair advantage, since I know both you and your SO in real life.

From what I know of him, he seems like the kind of guy who was brought up beleiving that he shouldn't express his feeling, and doesn't know how to react when you are trying to have him do just that.

Also, since you have already stated that his libido is not as high as yours, then maybe you would do what guys do when they are in that postion, instead of having him find you in your favorite bondage gear, try doing something that will warm him up, and make him think that the sex later is his idea.

He works a very physically demanding job, try to surprise him with a warm bath and a message. Help him relax, and then he might be more open to your advances. I know a nice message, or anything involving my back can really get my moter running.

About him saying that there is something wrong with you for wanting it so much, well, let me just say that was way out of line. Everyone's sexual drive is differnt, some like to have it just once a week, others daily, other several times a day. You will both have to make adjustments to fine an equlibrim between the two. (And have plenty of toys around when the other just isn't in the mood to play)

Good luck, and if you ever want to talk, you have my Number, I'm always ready to listen.