Maybe it is your wife dealing with herself and nothing to do with you. If she gained weight after the pregnancy or her body changed she might be feeling unattractive. It could also be she is just too tired after work and having the two children that her libido has dropped. The first thing I would do is take care of myself, try some therapy and ask your wife if she wants to join you there. Before you leave, you need to find what her issue is. If it is that she just does not desire you anymore, then you might need to leave for yourself. The kids are important, but how happy can you make them if you are stuck being just their nanny.
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