Cheating -
It truly depends on the situation, swingers do not cheat they swing and all is good that is why I love Dan and Jen vid about this because it summed it up so very well....
If you are doing something with another person that you would not do if your partner was standing near you then that is cheating,
Porn is not cheating, writing intimate love notes to a friend on line is, RP on line with no emotions is not cheating, as long as its in the open if its a secret then its cheating I think. I would rather have my girl have sex with a stranger once then kiss a friend several times... sex is sex intimacy is different.
I had a debate with a woman I work with and she claimed her man cheated on her cause he went to a go go bar, now mind you a go go bar is not even topless here, its just woman dancing in basically a bra and panties, you cant touch them, you cant kiss them you can only look at them, but yet every Sat night when we with a few friends go out she dirty dances with any man she can find, rubs up against them, she even finds humor in trying to get them hard while they are dancing but yet she thinks go go dancers are sluts and she is not. I told her that she is worse than a man that goes to a go go bar and much more of a whore than any go go dancer I ever met, needless to say she did not like that but I know I am right.
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