[michelle]

My husband and I have tried a little BDSM. He says he likes it, and he has bought some toys to go along. He has also expressed some interest in the outfits. I have watched all he says about it and, he knows i'm comfortable with the idea. But when asked about it or if we really look at it together he acts as if hes scared. but will openly talk about any other sex topic. Around his friends he seems like its no big deal to talk about, and he express that he likes it. but how do i get him to talk to me, or go to the next step, because i have done all i can think of.