Look into Taoist sexual practices, as they train each person to move sexual energy from their genitals up to their entire body. You may not be able to feel a genital orgasm but you may still be able to feel a whole body orgasms in your upper body.
According to taoism, genital orgasms are the lowest on the scale of orgasms. My teacher has told me about heart orgasms as being incredible and I am currently doing daily exercises to prepare myself to experience them.
It takes much practice and dedication through breathing work and other exercises but I believe it may be possible in your situation.
Books on the subject that you may find useful are tao of sexology by stephen chang and multi orgasmic man by mantak chia. These will give you a greater understanding of utilizing sexual energy and distributing it to your entire body.
I'm not sure how much you will be able to apply but that is for you to discover.
Best wishes.
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