not so sure
mac, while i agree men and women DO think and act differently, i know a big issues is that for about a yr i was less than perfect, needy, selfish and insecure due to work falling apart and really struggling in my life...as a result she pulled away (naturally) and in turn that fueled the neediness,.however i found out she was holding that against me saying she was "burnt out" etc and for approx the last 8mnths or so i was really workingn on myself and not stooping to those levels anymore, but too litttle too late and it just didnt work. in turn SHE went through her own stage recently of depression, not caring about what she looks like etc, and worst of all not being supportive of me trying to lose weight by eating junk in front of me and always turning down invitations to go out for a walk, bike, etc. she did congradulate me when i was successful etc tho. its over now, i realize i just wastn that happy in our relationship nor was she, and now im just in my angry stage. id just like to know that the lack of sex isnt all MY fault, and that there are women out there that arent "slu tz" and still have a high sex drive
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