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Originally Posted by modernsavage
Dude, stop making excuses. If you're going to make a move, you should do it NOW. Don't wait until her birthday, that's probably the worst time to do it. During her birthday, she'll be distracted by parties, friends, etc. Her mind will be in other places and not on you.
Get in touch with her and ask her if she wants to do something fun. Set it up and take her out. Mac had some good date suggestions above.
I'm not trying to be a dick or anything, but you need to get the thought process of "waiting until the right time" out of your head. There will never be a perfect moment to make a move. You deal with what you have at the moment and make it happen.
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Absolutely, Matt is right on. Swift action is usually the best guarantee of success. You know the common saying, "strike while the iron is hot". That's because you're much more likely to succeed.
Without getting too metaphysical on you here, I am a firm believer that The Universe, God, or reality, whatever you choose to believe in - presents you with opportunities and it is your options if you choose to seize them. If you sit around "thinking about it" most of these opportunities fade away as quickly as they appear.
I'm bad about this too sometimes, but "no excuses"... don't justify why something won't or didn't work, because you're basically self-talking yourself into it going wrong again. Focus on what you want to see happen and take action - no excuses, no fear.
Dan