people do not like change
it may be a bad situation all around but it is your situation and you are used to it.im sure also somewhere there is a certain romaticism in knowing two people who cant get along still manage to not kill each other.......but you forgot one thing....the kids...your job is not just to keep them from getting run over by a car before they are 13.youre supposed to be teaching them how to dress ,how to respect authority,how to do homework ,how to fish AND how to form relationships.....divorce is not a bad thing in itself,it is the damage the divorcing parents do that is the problem....if you do not show your children what a normal adult relationship looks like they will model their relationships on the only example they have been shown....so are you giving them a good model?
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