Swinging doesn't come with mandatory rules. Each couple gets to make up the rules that work for them. You can sit down and talk about how you feel with the other couple and see what they are thinking or feeling. They may want to be exclusive as well or they may be looking for more then that. Be open to how they feel and be willing to let them do what works best for them. After all, each couple has to stick with what is best for them. If they aren't interested and you really want that type of relationship then keep looking, there are couples out there looking for one couple to play with.
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