First, we need to rule out a couple of things:
One, are you on an antidepressant of any kind? Depression medications known as SSRI's are very common causes of low sex drive.
Two, if you aren't on an antidepressant, have you had your testosterone level checked? That can definitely be a cause of a low sex drive. That's very easy to check with a simple blood test. Most doctor's offices can't do it so it has to be sent out to a lab, but any clinic can draw the blood and forward it to the laboratory.
We need to rule those two things out before we start looking at emotional/relationship causes. If one of those is the problem, then nothing else can work.
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