Brett: It's cool. Girls tend to like older guys. By the time you're an upper classman you'll probably be getting a lot more interest.
I suspect you may be being something of a wallflower. The key to start meeting people is to start talking to people. Talk about the crazy civics teacher, or the fight in the lunchroom, or whatever. Just start talking to people. And not just the hot girls; that creeps them out. You want to talk to everyone, even girls you're not interested in. And guys to. That way, when you do strike up a conversation with a girl you're interested in, you're not being creepy; you're just the guy who talks to everyone.
In the meantime, I've got a suggestion; if you're willing to put the effort into it: Find a female friend or acquaintance and ask her to help you with your style and behavior. Girls love to fix guys. Listen to what she says you need to do, and I'll bet you'll get some ideas. She might even want to introduce you to a friend.
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