[Xero]

Doing this is going to hurt both of you and both of your relationships in the end. If you keep living the lie you are digging the hole deeper and deeper each time.

I think the reason you both are doing this is because your lacking something in your relationship. That seems to be chemistry, so you both need to fix that in your relationship. The only way to be not guilty of it any more would to be confessing which would be terrible for the both of you. But that's the position you put your selves in.

There isn't really a way to keep from getting caught. Some time some day something is going to happen where it's going to come out and be ugly.

I also noticed you didn't talk about your relationship much at all. Just some bumps here and there. What might those be, that could also be why you are cheating on your partner.

My best advice would be to stop seeing this 3rd party and go back to your relationship and fix the issues with it. Your only hurting your self and your partner. Plus the other relationship you are with.

I'm sorry for this post if it seems offensive.