set rules
keep in mind a womans idea of erotic rape will be very different to a mans idea.....beagle is very correct in needing a safe word it has to be something you would NEVER say in bed if you want to explore it make sure trust is the very first issue,then have the trust discussion again,and again if you have to.....it takes one screwed up attempt to fulfill a fantasy and it will be ruined for life.......plus remember not every fantasy needs to be realized.some are more erotic being lived out through masturbation
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