similr situation, but i had the affair :(
Do not do it.
find ways together to be a couple.
go to councellig
do anything but have the afiar
i went the other way
after 5 years of crap sex once every 2 months and then none 4 a year i had an affair
amazing sex - did not think it was possible to make someoe else feel so good and that felt so right.
My wife found out.
Being hit by a train would have hurt less than the pain i feel by hurting her and destroying my credibility.
It is not worth it. If you love your wife find ways to be happy together.
wish i did. hope we can be again sometime.
best of luck.
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