This is just to clarify some things: some people seem to be saying that I am cheating. I am not.
This was just inspired by something I saw in another post, from the perspective of one who said they'd cheated, and they were forced (it seemed) into marriage, more or less.
To answer Scarbowl's (possibly rhetorical) question, yes I would want my fiancee to be honest as I love her and I'm sure she loves me. If we were distant, then I'd feel more annoyed than betrayed.
I think Ian4fun captured my idea best (though I admit it might just be that I didn't describe my question well enough); when a marriage is more like a friendship.
Finally, before anyone says it, whioch a number of people have said, not just online, no I am not hunting for a specific answer, though I do tend to give that impression. I'm just looking for opinions on this scenario.
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