Alright so me and my girlfriend where talking about sex, and it some how led to fingering. She is not interested in fingering at all, and she finds it very disgusting. So she wants to just skip that part and go from second base to straight sex.
We probably have a good while before this happens. But I just really want to finger her because I'm pretty sure I could do a good job with it. I also believe it would really help to loosen the vagina before sex the first time. She finds it just completely disgusting and I got her to at least agreeing to try it for me.
Is there anything that I can do to convince her more that it will be alright, and to make it easier on her? I will never force or harm her in any way.
I am mostly concerned that I'm going to hurt her really bad for out first time and just wish that she isn't hurt as much so I wish to properly prepare her.
Thank you so much for any advice you can give me.
