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Hi Rob,

I understand totally the marriage and frendship thing.
I thought that is what I had, and just needed sex to make it (life) "complete".

For me the guilt affected my temper just abit and patience with those i love.
Gave me an out in the normal downs in life - "I could be with her and not put up with thisshit", of course I did not want that, I wanted tobe with my family.

Now I miss that friendship with my wife so much it is hard to even take a breath.

playing with fire and sex can be fun, but you will always get burned in some ways.