Rebound Relationships
I have been dating a guy for a month now. We connected right away from the start and talked for hours. He had just gotten out of a 2 ½ year relationship a month before we met. He was just out with his friend and didn’t expect to meet someone. I asked what happened and he said that she needed space. She told him that “She tells him she wants apples, but he brings her pears” He said that confused him, as he thought they were happy and doing fine. I told him that he obviously still had feelings for her and should try and work it out. He said they were still talking, but now he wasn’t sure what he wanted or what was going to happen. I wasn’t ready for anything serious at the time, thought I could handle it, so I told him that we can hang out and just take it slow… Surprising to me, as I don’t fall for guys easily, I’m finding that the more time I spent with him, the more I like him. He seems to feel the same way about me, but he's still confused. I’m not cut out to be anyone’s rebound girl! I’m starting to get impatient, and feeling like I’m his possible 2nd choice or the other woman. MY QUESTION: Should I tell him how I feel and (if so what do I say) OR should I just move on?
Thank you!
Rebound Girl
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