One more thing. About the whole sex thing. Sounds like you know what you're doing there however some people get the sex and yet don't learn a darn thing.
You will need...
Lube, candles, massage oil, lube, calm music, towl, lube, bed side water jug, nibble food (chocolate) and also don't forget lube. LOTS OF LUBE!! Great stuff.
Yes, a relaxed girl is a happy girl. Massage her body. Play the tunes. Kiss her body. Lube each other up and get her to go on top. Let her have all the control and make sure she is guilt free and having fun. If things arnt going well STOP!! Laugh, kiss and if you're lucky start again later or try another day.
Hope this helps. Good luck my friend.
