Yeah. It's a difficult position trying to pit ones happiness against the others. BOTH people deserve to be happy. I would highly recommend giving her extra attention and not expect anything out of it. That's if you want to use the time to try this method. She'll eventually meet your wants, for reaching hers, but that could literally take fucking years off your lives! If you want, you can always try to date again, but you already know that scene, and that takes alot of time and patience too. Not to mention you're married. So just do the first method, that's my suggestion.
Maybe she wasn't alright with WHO you were with.
HOWEVER, she was alright with taking liberties.
Sounds like she's just being greedy. She wants and gets.
You're her bitch, it would seem. To just put it ever bluntly.
Communication is key to everything. Put your cards on the table.
There's no telling how she'll react, this is something you'll have to update us on.
You shouldn't have any problems, all you'd have to do is say what you have to say to her, and then get a response. I expect no ill outcome from this. All you should get is more intel.
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