tame brainstorming:
1. use silk ties
2. blindfold him
3. tie him to bedposts or a chair
4. gently bite him on neck
5. when you get him tied up, tease him with cock worship/oral. or tease him with feather duster, ice cube, your hair, run it down his body, over his crotch etc.
6. if you have time go to home depot and get rope from rope aisle, get the soft kind
7. you really need to learn some good knots, get a book on japanese bondage for next time, it will show you some good techniques and cover safety tips
8. another advanced tip: when he's tied up, play with his ass.
9. Make sure he has a safeword he can use if it gets to be too much!