It sounds like you both have realistic understandings of your status. It almost sounds like you're going to be more like roommates than committed life partners. You and he are talking about the things you need to be talking about. The conversation that needs to happen next is about your mutual expectations for the relationship. My concern here is that three of four months down the road, you and he will discover that you had different expectations of the nature of your relationship and where it's going. This is a conversation that only you and he can have, and I think you and he need to cover this thoroughly before you take this next step of moving in together.
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