When you find the appropriate partner, ask him to be rough with you, that might be a good start. If you enjoy how it unfolds, and if you are comfortable, talk to him about the fantasy. Just like with any fantasy, doing it might take the exciting part out of it. Maybe you should reserve it for masturbation. But I think that taking it step by step might give you a good feeling on how it will end up. I think it's in every woman to desire to be roughed up during sex, so don't worry this seems quite normal.
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