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Originally Posted by YourEternalRest
In her experience, she wasn't able to get a bf when she was looking but rather they came along when she actually wasn't looking.
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I'll give you credit on this one, it works both ways. Sometimes you can find them when you are looking. Sometimes when your not looking something just smacks you in the face from no where.
I think the reason for this is if you are trying too hard you miss what is there. When you are relaxed you can see everything that is in front of you, but too lazy and love passes you up. When you are in the middle you are in the mode to go after it instead of sitting on the side lines, and your not looking too hard to find it.
When you try too hard you are pushing your standards to the limits. No one is perfect, you just gotta give some people leeway here and there. Their imperfections make them who they are, and the good usually weighs out the bad. Plus their unique especially to you, when you find that out its awesome.