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Old 09-12-2009, 03:34 AM
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I took this advice on some levels and asked him he became very very angry about me asking if there was any possibility that he was gay or bisexual he stated he liked the feeling but that he didnt have any attraction to men. He was not on drugs and not drinking just wanted to do it. I don't know even what gay or bisexual is classified as. Hes done this with 4 different men about 20 times he said and I'm the only woman hes been with. Thats what has me truely worried, he wanted to and said us doing it with toys would give the same feeling. I'm just not sure im comfortable in experimenting to this degree. I love him and want to make it work even if i have to try new things but im not ok with sharing him. He wants kids and wants to be together but i dont want to go 20 years and find out holy crap hes gay and leaves me for a man. I'm suggesting to him now that we speak to a therapist im just worried he wont tell the truth i asked him directly he said no he just likes the feeling.
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