Well I'd try that getting her husband to leave her idea first.
Everyone will be happier that way, + she can't really be angry at you for helping her out now can she?
But to tell the truth if he is happy with a forced marriage, hes probably not the kinda guy to break up no matter what you say.
And you can't put your life on hold for her, waiting for her to make decision, you'll be dead before she makes it if you leave it up to her.
So you have to get a definite answer either way. Either so you two can run off together or you can go get another girl.
Why not work on both at the same time?
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