Yes, it's perfectly safe. Actually, it's completely normal too. Your prostate is right under your anus, and that's what gives men the best orgasms (like a female g-spot), so it's understandable that you prefer those orgasms. And there may be other ways that create equally good orgasms, but since your utilizing your prostate, it's unlikely you'll find another way you like quite as much.
Although if you ever have someone else insert their finger (guys have girls do it a lot actually) or a toy, make sure the toy is cleaned or the finger is covered with a condom or seran wrap.
There are lots and lots of toys for anal play. I'd start out with something small and simple and affordable and then move your way up with bigger and more creative toys. They'll come in all kinds of prices from low to high. Try sites like EdenFantasys.com or AdamEve.com. Or you might be able to find an adult novelty/lingerie store near you like Adam & Eve's or Priscilla's/Priscilla McCall's, Frisky Business, Etc. These are mostly geared towards women but should have lots of great stuff for you. Make sure to ask for advice and don't be nervous or embarrassed.
And don't be silly, it's not at all "gay". It's completely normal to enjoy your prostate. ^-^
Have fun and play safe!
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