hi..
sorry to not have mentioned couple of things..
first of all, yes, she is a virgin..but I do believe that she is not the kind of girl who is totally adamant in not having sex until marriage, she is a passionate girl and having sex would not be any matter of 'fear' or 'uneasiness' for her (to that, I'm confident of). I did talk to her about this and i believe that her biggest concern is that somehow her parents (or anybody else) would know of this and it may cause a great 'social mishap'. Also, almost all of her friends (females) are still virgins so she kinda feels safe to be the part of the pack.
Getting pregnant or catching STD may not be her biggest concern because we both know we'd be totally cautious n careful if we'd be actually 'doing' it. Like I said earlier, she fears that her 'dirty linen would be washed in public'. We're seeing each other for 1 year, and i'm really counting on the fact that we took the next step of knowing each other 'physically' apart from knowing psychologically. please advice
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