Hi Dan and Jennifer
I got this problem I am married for 4 years now (no kids yet) and we lived together before we get married for like 7 years everything used to be great our relationship is perfect we never cheated or lied to each other our sex life was great we had it every day most days more than once... each day was like our first time and in 99% of the times we both had orgasms.
the trouble is that she started to say no for sex (2 months ago) and after talking she said that her feelings for me are lost I cannot believe it we never had any serious troubles or fights before after a while she decided to leave me because she do not want to see me suffering i am madly in love with her. And she does not have an affair. We talk on the phone she says that she needs some time alone.... she worries about me he misses me she wonders whether I sleep well and eat how I am feeling...
And she is not happy and is asking for a week away I see her everyday but not where she lives now I go to her at work she comes to me we kiss when saying good bye we never want to hang up the phones when we are talking....
I do not know what to do I love her very very much and I think she loves me too. I do not know what to do she is asking for a week more alone and then everything will be fine she says
She is refusing to get help (therapy)
help me please .....