Guys, hmm... this may not be what you're hoping to hear. But it's really tricky if you don't know whether this new couple would be open to it. I'd say definitely proceed with caution. Our advice: get to know them better, don't spring something on them.
Yes, it's true that millions of couples in the U.S. alone are open to some degree of "openness" in their relationship. But that still leaves maybe 75% that aren't, and of that very optimistic number that ARE open to it, there's just no way to know what exactly they're open to.
So short version, get to know them first. If you actually like them as friends over time, let the relationship develop naturally. As you get to know them, it'll become obvious if they're interested "in that way".
Once people get comfortable and "let loose" it's much easier to be open and get to really know them. And that way you're building a more quality relationship anyway...
You might also check out some of the
swinger videos and articles in our Swingers & Threesomes channel here on Ask Dan & Jennifer, I know we've done some videos on related topics.
Your thoughts?
And let us know how it goes!!!