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Hello,

Since we have had our first child, every time I go down on my wife I get to a certain point and she stops me and says that it makes her feel like she has to go pee. After doing some searching on the net some sites say that this may be female ejaculate building up. Some sights say that this is not possible. Is this true or should I be worried that she really has to pee? What is the best way to bring this up and have her feel okay about it? Do we need to get plastic sheets?

When we first started dating I would bring her to orgasm regularly but I haven't been able to for a long time. I have gotten the feeling that she doesn't enjoy sex anymore which makes me not enjoy sex as much. In a way I have turned to masturbation more and we've lost a lot of passion. We also have another kid on the way in November so I'm not sure when we will have sex again. I am working on the masturbation and I have put some rules in place for myself so I don't do it as often.

I want my wife to enjoy sex again, but I don't know how. Any advice will be helpful.

Thanks