How do I act on signs of attraction?
Ok, there is a girl in my class who is super hot, perfect body/big eyes/small but full lips/wavy black hair/ Smooth tanned(She is indian) skin/ Slightly shorter than me around 172-173 cm (I am 178). We have been in the same class for about two months now but I was chasing somebody else so I wasn't really interested in her. However that failed, and I have been looking around, etc.
Now, I think she is showing signs of attraction. I used to sit quite far away from her, however last week I decided to sit at the center of the round table, directly opposite of professor. I took this seat because it allowed me to pretty much see everything that is going on in the class, and I would make my presence known to everybody. At this point she was sitting two seats away from me. While I was sitting there I managed to make eye contact with her and hold her gaze for two to three seconds before we broke off and I refocused on the professors' lecture (I am a straight A student in that class and plan to keep it that way). Then for the rest of the class I could catch her constantly turning her head in my general direction, could not be sure that she was looking at me though cause I was not paying attention to her.
End of class I chat her up, and talk about how our professor is a crazy witch. Kind of light and short but somewhat funny conversation.
Next, class we meet she sits right next to me. I start talking to her, smalltalk that made her smile/laugh a bit, nothing heavy. Then during the lecture we accidentally bumped our feet twice. End of class I didn't talk to her because I had to talk to the professor about some department event that I have to organise since I am the undergraduate French department representative in our Arts and Sciences council.
Third class, I come in ask if people in my class if they will be attending my event, and use it as a conversation opener with the hot indian girl. During this class she mirrored some of my movements, she threw her hair back quite a few times. Put on chapstick, played with her lips using her pen, played with her pen. Looked at my direction. I talked to her a bit during the class(Whispers) asking for time, and asked if she was bored by the prof etc. End of class we talked while on the way out, about general school stuff etc. When we parted she said bye and had her shoulders pointed towards me. Although I did notice that during the class she took up a lot of defensive postures, such as crossing her arms and such, she was also slumped a lot of the times so these could be signs of disinterest, but these were instances between times where she would spawl over her books and lean on the desk towards my general direction.
I am almost sure she is at least somewhat attracted to me, if not quite attracted however I don't know what is the next step for me? Should I ask her to lunch some time this week? (Our class ends at 12:00) I don't want to move too fast considering last time I moved way too fast and fucked things up. Should I ask her if she has boyfriend during our lunch break if it ever happens? Should I just go ahead and ask her out on a date or hold that off maybe a week after our lunch?
I am usually pretty good at getting girls to talk to me, but I am hopeless when it comes to what to do next...
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