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Old 11-05-2009, 11:57 AM
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Default Debating on casual sex - advice?

I've been separated from my husband for over six months. We had been together for 15+ years. To put it bluntly I'm horny. I have a friend that I know would be willing to satisfy my urges but am hesitant to induldge but am not sure why. It's not the "if it doesn't work I'll lose a good friend" scenario that is stopping me. It's partially self esteem issues, partially that I am not physically attracted to him, partially that I haven't been with anyone else in over 15 years and wasn't overly experimental before that.

This man is very open and honest - I know that he would be willing to talk to me about anything and everything if I could just get my nerve up.

I'm not looking for a relationship, just some casual mind blowing sex - I think he's willing - how do I stop over thinking it?
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