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Old 08-07-2008, 03:12 AM
melodyengg melodyengg is offline
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Default Confused, what do I do?

Hi,
I actually have a few questions. I'm currently single and live with 3 other roommates who all have boyfriends. They all tell me that I need a boyfriend but I don't know how to really get out there. BUT, I do have these feelings for one of my close guy friends. I feel like there could possibly be something more, but I'm not sure.

My friend and I have been out a few times, he pays for our meals when we go out and refuses to let me pay, but our conversations tend to die and we have awkward silences, but online, we talk a lot. He always asks when we're going to hang out again, but I'm afraid to go out because conversations die. I try to carry them out, but sometimes it's hard to get response out of him.

One time I spent the night and both of us were up all night, and I'm assuming because we were both nervous? I've talked to him about it, and when I asked him if he liked me more than just a friend, he said he didn't, but then he asked me about me, and I told him that I would date him and he paused for a second and didn't give me a direct answer. So i still feel that there is there is still some sort of tension there. Does that make any sense?

I really like him and I want to be more than just friends with him, but is he worth it or should I move on?
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