my relationship with my finace has endured the long haul of the 'ldr'. there were many times we didn't speak with eachother... months at times...
hang in there. she hasn't cut communcation and she hasn't told you that she is done with the relationship.
remember that as time goes by, we all tend to change in the way we relate to others. i wouldn't take it personal if she has stopped her flattering remarks. maybe she is just confident in your relationship, so she doesn't have the need to elaborate undieing affection.
as for being in the 'ldr', i wish you both the best of luck. my relationship is living proof that it can work. we have been together for over 5 years now. we are now settled and living under the same roof lol!
do yourself and your girlfriend a real big favor, do not EVER bring up ex's and their emotional baggage until you both are completely at ease with the idea that there was at one time another person in both of your lives.
if you are still talking with your ex, i implore you to understand that this could cause a very nasty outcome with your current girlfriend. there are boundries us women expect in most relationships. we are very jealous creatures, and having our man talking to other women really pisses us off.
your relationship with your ex will add a bad flavor to your relationship. if you can't stop communicating with her for what ever reason, at least do not seek advise from her concerning your new woman. or at least do not tell your your girlfriend everything she has to say... this is only going to hurt you all in the long run.
good luck
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